The Blarney Stone is a historical stone in Ireland that is part of the Blarney Castle. It is said that kissing the stone will grant you the gift of gab. Yes, in this day and age, it is weird, but who are we to challenge tradition? It's not as if I'm denying the existence of Santa Claus (oops!).
There is far more to learn about dialogue than anyone, including myself, could possibly comprehend. Talk shows, radio programs, groups dedicated to public speaking, and everyday discussions are all examples of how certain standards still apply when it comes to verbal contact. I know it sounds tedious, but even though your mouth does the work, your brain works twice as hard to churn out as many facts as you do. What better approach to begin learning how to communicate effectively than to get to know the person closest to you: yourself?
1. What you know.
Learning the fundamentals is important, but putting what you've learned into practice is even more important. My experience as a guest at every Toastmasters meeting showed me that we all have limitations, but that doesn't mean we can't learn to overcome them and share what we know.
2. Listening.
Asking questions isn't the only thing that matters. Listening to the sound of our own voice can sometimes teach us to be a little more confidence in ourselves and to speak up for what we believe in.
3. Humility
We all make mistakes, and we all have a tendency to slur our words, stutter, and probably mispronounce certain phrases, even if we know what they mean, but we rarely use them to impress listeners. So, if you're in a group, don't be afraid to inquire if you're saying the correct word, and if they're unsure, make a joke about it. I guarantee that will make everyone laugh, and you'll get away with it.
4. Eye Contact
When it comes to directing your attention to your audience with an eye-catching glance, there's a lot to say. Even if he or she is stunning, it's critical to maintain your focus when speaking to a huge group in a meeting or gathering.
5. Kidding around
When giving a speech, a small touch of comedy might help to relieve tension or, worse, boredom. That manner, the bulk of the audience will pay attention to you, and they will believe that you are just as approachable and human to those who listen.
6. Be like the rest of them
Interaction is all about mingling with other people. You'll get a lot of ideas, as well as knowing what people make them as they are.
7. It's just me, myself, and I
Admit it, there are occasions when you sing to yourself in the shower. I'm certain I do! Listening to the sound of your own voice while practicing your speech in front of a mirror may help you alter the stress areas of your pitch. While you're at it, give yourself a makeover.
8. With a friendly smile
A smile, like eye contact, says it all. Unless it's a wake, there's no use in grimacing or frowning in a meeting or gathering. When you grin, you can better explain what you're saying.
9. An Inspirational Figure
You've probably listened to at least one or two people in your life when they're speaking in public or at church. Sure, they read their lines, but keeping track of how they accentuate what they say might benefit you once you're in the spotlight.
Preparation No. 10
Make the most of your preparation rather than scribbling notes in a frantic frenzy. Some people prefer to scribble notes on index cards, while others choose to be a little more amusing while looking at notes scribbled on the palm of their hand (not for clammy hands, please). Because you appreciate your profession, just stick to what you know.
That's all there is to it. These tips are unsophisticated on the surface, but I've learned to empower myself when it comes to public or private speaking, and it never hurts to be around people and observe how they make talks and meetings lot more entertaining and enlightening.
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